Have you ever felt peaceful looking into someone's eyes? Have you ever felt stressed? Do you have trouble talking with some people? Do you ever feel awful after watching tv or movies? I know I have! In this series I will share tips and give a little explanation in order to give you some ideas which you might like to try in order to improve giving and getting emotional feedback through eye contact.
This is the first episode in this new series.
Enjoy this free episode
Length: 8:13
What has been your experience? I would love to hear! Please comment below.
What happens in the front of the brain and back? Why does it matter?
Thanks to S.R. who sent me this link partially way through Dr Wilder's seminar.
It is really fantastic.
If you or anyone you love had a trauma they still deal with (meaning they never had what they needed when the bad thing happened- it can be a hug and a listening ear, someone who could see their fear, disgust, embarrassment, anger, or hopeless despair, attune to them and let them know someone was still glad to be with them in spite of the bit problem), THIS info is super helpful.
It's SUPER helpful to understand how information isn't really what's helpful and that our work is not really to solve problems. OH MY GOODNESS someone sing a song....for this is the REAL stuff of life I've been longing to hear all my days.
Seriously...to hear this all is amazing!!!!
I would say more...but I'm in the back of my brain and tired from a day of life in my skin. When I have more articulative ability I'll maybe say more.
What do YOU think and/or feel about it? I can hardly wait to read your comments!
Trauma: Impact and Implications for Recovery - Jim Wilder
[For those of you who like to read about my daily details, I've managed to hear this from where it starts at about 54 minutes through the end, though it's literally taken me the entire day of stopping and starting with a hundred other things going on.]
If you want to find the resources he mentions in the clip, you can find them at his ministry website as well as here.
Oh, and if the whole idea of inner healing is weird to you and brushes against your theological background, perhaps you will appreciate this.
When I was a kid, my dad played this album for me. I think he was RG Prophet. The truths and the principles within these songs became my reality....I think I was about 12.
The vinyl came out the year I was born and has a unique sound as well as a refreshing put-together-ness of the music (there's a technical word for that but I can't think of it...arrangement maybe?). It's 40 kids singing at Christmas.
Immanuel: God with Us Edited to add: If you're wanting a perspective from one of the guys with Life Model Works, I love this blog post from Ed Khoury as he brings up the struggle some have within Christendom to deal with inner healing. I highly recommend you checking it out here. Also, Ed K. has great audio you can hear here.
I'm down in the trenches...dealing with SO many things and knowing this isn't a time to externally process because I'm sucking in SO many things, processing and dealing with OH SO MUCH...
I've been working on this post for you so those of you who are asking can have an idea of what this Immanuel Process is...
First, consider taking a look at this video with the music turned off. Imagine God being with us...through everything. That's the idea...and this video is something which helped me get my innards to understand the idea...
I love what Dr Wilder and his crew share about all the real life pain stuff we all deal with.
For me, it's taken it from the theology of the scriptures to the brain and the body and to a place I can DO something with it.
I want to share more later and give you words for WHY I love this...but if you listen to Chris, you'll be able to hear the principles there...as he does such a great job sharing them.
Go here to get a free download of different great stuff from LMW, including info on the Immanuel process.